The Non-Monogamy Dating Guide

So, you're new to Non-Monogamy and have agreements with your existing partner about going on dates—what now?

This digital download is a 19-page book that outlines the essentials for getting started with dating when you're new to non-monogamy.

Mel draws on their experience as a former matchmaker and over a decade of working with people beginning their journey into non-monogamy to address basics: where to meet other non-monogamous people, how to get to a first date, and where to go from there!
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What's included?

Overview of Dating Apps

A frank look at some of the more popular apps for non-monogamous dating and connections today.

Dating Profile Guide

Essential dos and don'ts to ensure your dating profile not only stands out, but helps you connect with folks you're going to be a good match with.

Safer Sex Convo Guide

The "DATEPREP" conversation guide to help you make sure you don't forget anything important to communicate when it comes to sexual health and safety.

Sections:

Where to Find Non-Monogamous People
Dating App Overview
Making a Great Dating Profile
Connecting On The Apps
Dating App Red Flags
The "Date Zero"
Going On A Date Zero
Wrapping Up A Date Zero
Digital Workbook Cost = $5 CDN (approx $3.60USD or 3 EUR)
If you are experiencing financial hardship, please email support (at) radicalrelating.ca to receive a discount code.

What people are saying 

I just wanted you to know that [you] helped me strengthen my relationships by thinking about and communicating my boundaries. So now I’m relieved AND more in alignment with my authentic self.
Jen, Nanaimo, Canada
Mel has been a tremendous source of inspiration for my relationships and my community at large. [They] present with a combination of professionalism, knowledge and open-minded curiosity that makes her safe and approachable. 
Erin, Rotterdam, Netherlands
You rock! I've been able to articulate and communicate much better within my relationships and to create safe spaces. 
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About The Author

Mel Cassidy

Mel Cassidy(they/them) is a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner™ and relationship coach committed to the path of liberatory love and rewilding intimacy.

They specialize in working with queer and questioning humans (and those who love them), exploring post-monogamous relationships—with a focus on polyamory, solo polyamory, and relationship anarchy.

They are of Irish, Greek, and Romani descent and have lived in 3 countries across three continents. They currently live in British Columbia, Canada, and work with clients and students around the world.

Their first book, Radical Relating: A Queer and Polyamory-Informed Guide to Love Beyond the Myth of Monogamy, was published by North Atlantic Books in 2025.

Find them on Instagram/Facebook/Substack/Insight Timer @radicalrelating or visit radicalrelating.ca
Patrick Jones - Course author
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